July 5, 2022
It's been 7 years. We miss you every day Bud.
June 13, 2022
We're kind of a mess here missing you, but you gave us great memories and we have laughed today thinking about you and your huge personality. A classic one was when you tried to tell me you wanted to eat out of a ceramic bowl. You refused to eat your food and kept slapping your plastic bowl and spilling the food all over. I tried several types of food, different plastic bowls, and then you did the unthinkable. You did something you have never done before or since. You had an "accident" on the floor and made sure you made eye contact. Once there was eye contact, you slowly turned and started to eat it! I could tell you were upset by the look on your face, as if to say "why did you make me do this?". After some thought, I remembered that my mother used ceramic dog bowls for her pups. I pulled out a white ceramic bowl from the cabinet and put your food in it, and that was that. You ate out of that bowl for 12 years. Sorry it took so long for me to figure it out!
Lots of other memories that make us smile, and we will miss you being with us here, at home. PJ has been looking for you. Probably trying to figure out when the next ambush will happen. Fluff took one of your blankets and moved it. We are all adjusting.
Thanks for all the happiness and joy you brought to our family.
Play hard with Butch and Buster.
Well, Bud Bud, it has been a week since you scampered to the Bridge and it feels like a year. We missed you today after grocery shopping as you weren't here to inspect all of the full grocery bags. That earned you the nickname "Grocery Inspector". Fluff has kind of stepped in as a backup to inspect the bags, but he just doesn't have the same approach. You used to dive in and pull out stuff and then guard your prizes. You never hurt anything, well almost. Remember the time we went to the lake and I had some bags on the floorboard of the car? You spotted them about 1/2 way to the lake and tore all of the bags open, and then started to tear the paper towel and toilet paper to shreds. At the end, you snorted as if to say "there, that's better!". I recorded that on my iPhone and have shared that with other dog lovers who think it is hilarious.
I'll check in from time to time and share another memory. Oh, by the way, a few people have visited you and want you to know there are others there at the bridge to show you the ropes--Finn and Pedro. Check them out. Run fast. Love, Your Mom and Dad
We continue to smile and talk about your personality and the things that made you so much fun--Rolling in the grass, scratching at the pantry door, barking at the refrigerator for a treat, and riding in the car sitting on the center console as a navigator.
A few updates for you. Your Dad planted a bush in your honor with a garden stone. We continue to get cards in the mail in support of our loss. We got a letter today from Michigan State University letting us know that a donation was made in your honor to the Companion Animal Fund. You continue to touch lives, and always will. Hope you found Finn and Pedro. Love, Your Mom and Dad
July 25, 2014
Had an interesting, odd moment today Buddy. You know I work with people a lot in my line of work, deal with confidentiality, and spend time listening and helping solve challenges. Some times, a person will thank me for the time and ask me "hey, who do you talk to?" My running joke was always "my dog, Buddy". Today, the question came up again, and I paused. My heart clenched, and I simply did not answer the question and merely smiled. Of course, I have a great family of people who are always here for me and listen, but you are gone. I used to call you Yoda because he was wise and did not say much...:)
A few other updates for you. You came home a couple of days ago and your little box is in your bed with your blanket and 2 toys. You still have Rich's towel he gave you when he went to college too. I left that in your bed. Molly has sniffed your stuff but won't touch it. I'm amazed because she always stole your food, toys and bones. She must know we are sad and she is honoring your memory. She is sleeping by your bed, but not on it. PJ is hanging out under the bed where you used to sleep from time to time. Fluff has stopped moving your blanket around the house. We got a call from the vet day before yesterday and I guess they took an impression of your paws and wanted us to have them. That was tough, but I'm glad we have them. I catch your Dad from time to time feeling low, so we console each other and talk about how much fun we had with you. You know, there are humans who leave this earth who probably have not made as much of an impact on others as you have. Thanks for hanging out with us for 13 1/2 years!
Please look for another pup named Buddy there at the Bridge. He sounds a lot like you, and I think you two will have fun together.
July 31, 2014
There are tales of a fearsome, gigantic sea creature that wreaked havoc on the open seas. Legend has it that certain people could control the beast, and upon command, unleash the destruction on entire fleets of ships. The phrase "release the Kraken" has been used in a few popular movies to alert you to the fact that things are about to get really bad. The monster was huge and could swallow an entire ship, so there was no mistaking that the "you know what was going to hit the fan" after hearing those words. While watching a movie this weekend and hearing "release the Kraken", I had a memory about you. You always stirred things up with your fellow furry friends here at the house. At times, we would put you in the bedroom and shut the door for a time out. After a few minutes, your Dad and I would look at each other and one of us would say "release the Kraken!".....and then go open the door. You would tear out like a flash and skid on the hardwood floor when you rounded the corner to the kitchen. You wanted to make sure you did not miss anything or a scrap of food hitting the kitchen floor. You weighed less than 12 pounds, but Kraken was a befitting nickname.
August 17, 2014
We went to the lake again this weekend. Of course, you went too. It was hard to see the place where you last stood, but your spirit will be with us forever Buddy. Driving back in the car I could swear I saw your bowls on the floorboard. You used to eat on the way home and then take a nap on the front seat. You were a great navigator and I will miss our rides.
August 22, 2014
This evening I found 1/2 of your pink tablet on the dresser. Finding it reminded me of when I took you to the vet a couple of years ago because you didn't seem like yourself. The vet checked you over and really did not find anything. She asked to take an x-ray of your abdomen, to rule out major obstructions or masses. She came back into the exam room and snapped the film on the rack, "schnick", and then flipped on the light. She said "do you see that gray looking cloud covering Buddy's entire body cavity?"....yep, I saw it. It looked like a fuzzy, gray cloud. I asked "what is that?"....simple answer, "gas". You had so much gas you were in pain, so you know what they did next....anyway, you were happier after letting off some pressure and from then on we used 1/2 of a Gas-X tablet if we saw you chasing your tail (that is what you did when you had a little bit of gas). That little pink tablet helped us all sleep better at night too! Hope you are having fun with your friends. We miss having you around to make us laugh. Love, Mom and Dad
October 8, 2014
We miss you. The Buddy bush is full of blooms and reminds us of you, and we even talk to you. I'm sure the neighbors wonder sometimes....Molly is still leaving your bed alone. Still amazes me that she will not touch your toys in the bed. I finally made it through a week without "tearing up". That took a few months. My coworker has a sick pup and it brought back some memories of your last day, so the last 2 days have been a bit harder again. I do think about the funny stuff you did and that helps. We miss you Bud. Love Mom and Dad
November 10, 2014
The sick pup pulled through, so that is good. I found your snow boots last weekend and smiled. You really hated those things and only wore them a few times. The alternative was putting your paws under warm, running water after you came in from the snow and had ice stuck to your fur. You really liked that. You basically wore a sweater all winter and loved one in particular that you wore your entire life. It had a diamond on the back, so we called you "diamond back rattler". I have dreamed about you a lot the last month. They are all funny dreams and make me smile. Hope you are playing hard and having fun. Love Mom and Dad
January 6, 2015
Sorry I did not check in for the holidays, but we did think about you a lot. It was different not having you here to play with new toys and entertain us with your antics. My friend told me yesterday that they had to say goodbye to their pup who they had for many years. That was Friday, and of course, I am sad hearing her grieve...brings back the loss of you like it was yesterday. We miss you. Love Mom and Dad
March 8, 2015
Sad week and don't know why..just that we miss you. Love Mom and Dad
April 4, 2015
Today is my birthday and the sound of your tags woke me. I swear that I heard you, but maybe not. It was very faint as if you were near, but yet far away. Obviously, you were on my mind and I've dreamed of you a lot lately. We miss you Bud.
May 13, 2015
Orange left us day before yesterday. He was at least 14 years old which is pretty dang old for a goldfish. He was special and we will miss him. He is resting near your memorial stone in the front yard, next to your bush. If you see him, say hi. Love ya Bud Bud.
June 20, 2015
We just got back from Maine and you would have enjoyed it. There were dogs welcomed everywhere we went. Seems like Maine is a dog-friendly state. We saw some beautiful country and the ocean was awesome. Not much wildlife but the weather was perfect. Your bush bloomed a lot while we were gone and it looks beautiful. Love Mom and Dad
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I forgot to mention that I had strong flashbacks of you while cleaning the cottage this weekend. I was cleaning the french door windows and the sound it made was like you when you would jump on the closed doors trying to get to the dining area where we ate...:) It was like you were there.
I started entries at the top of this page. While editing this, Oliver, our cat, pounced on the keyboard. I certainly hope that some of the entries are not messed up or deleted! I did a quick check, and everything looks okay.:(