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Memories of Scott James

May 27, 2019 Scott it is now Memorial Day and I have thought about you all day. I wish so much you were still here with us.We miss you so very much. Just wanted to tell you how much we love you and always will. Dad is thinking about you too and misses you so much. We still shed tears for you. We love you. Many hugs for you. Your in our hearts always.

Feb 10, 2019..

.wow it's been a little while. I am putting together a book for DeAndre and it's bringing so many memories back. I miss you so much and I always will. Sometimes I wish we were little again playing frisbee in the backyard. I loved all our talks we would have then and as adults. I'll love and miss you always....your sis

Well Scott, I gave you a chef hat because it definitely was your passion. You were proud that you could give people the nourishment they needed especially your loved ones. I placed a tennis racket also because you were taken away from me too soon. We should be out playing tennis together. Just know you are in my heart and I write with tears that never go away.............love your sis.

Thinking of you, brother on your birthday today 11-13-2016. I love you so much and still miss you as much as ever. You are in my heart always. Sending hugs to you, your sister, Paula

Happy Birthday Scott. You are still so much in our hearts and we love you very much. You are so very much missed by everyone. It is just not the same without you. Wish so much you were still here. Wish you could see your daughter she is doing great and she always thinks of you and missed you so much. We will always love and miss you. Love and hugs from Mom and Dad 2016.

Scott, Here we are again . It is your birthday today. Just want to tell you happy birthday and i pray you are at peace and
and happy. We still think of you all the time and will never stop missing you. Andy called today remembering you on your birthday. And I just talked to Dee and she loves and misses you always. YOU ARE SO MISSED Many hugs and kisses are still there for you forever. WE LOVE YOU. ALWAYS Love, hugs, kisses, and Prayers. MOM and DAD

Well, Scott. It's that time of year again when I will be in the store and the fudge ingredients will remind me of you and bring tears to my eyes. I miss you everyday and I remember that broken winged bird you gave me for Christmas. Love you always, you sis

Well, my brother, it is 2 years since I've gotten a hug from you and I miss you a lot. I often 'see' you in Albany and I look twice just in case it might be you. Happy birthday today. We all love you and think about you all the time. I'm not sure where the time goes and sometimes I wish we could go back for the good times. Love you very much.
your sis

Scott I can't believe you have been gone from us for two years. Today is your birthday and you are in our thoughts and especially in our hearts. We still miss you so much and always will. Our love for you will never change or go away. I just pray still that you are happy now and with the Lord.There are still so many people who think of you and miss you. We wish so much you were still here with us. We have so many memories of you and still shed tears. Although there are times when we smile when we think of the happy times we had with you God blessed us when he gave you to us. Happy Birthday honey we love you oh so much. MISS YOU TERRIBLY. LOVE, MOM AND DAD

One year ago we lost you, but every day you remain in our hearts. I love you and miss you brother.
your sis

"You are the stars to me, you are the light I follow"
Today marks 1 year since you've been gone. You are on my mind everyday and with me in everything that I do. Words can't say how much I wish you were here with us today. I love you and miss you. r.i.p

Thinking of you on this special day. Your birthday. I cant believe a year has gone by already. Last year we took you out to dinner and you looked so nice. Little did I know it would be the last time I would see you. When we parted that night you gave me a special hug as if you didn't want to let go and told me you loved me. Then one week later you were gone. I didn't want to let go of you either. But you are still so much in my heart and always will be. I will never let go and I pray one day we will be together again. I will always remember the day we brought you home. We were so happy and we loved you so much right from the start. I cant tell you how much I miss you and wish you were here. You are always in my thoughts and my heart. So on this special day I send you all my love and pray you are resting in peace happily. MANY MANY HUGS and KISSES ILOVE YOU Love always your MOM

Scott, It has already been one year since you left us. I still can;t believe you are gone. You will never be gone from our hearts. Dad and I both shed tears over you still. We will always be thinking of you and wishing you were here with us. Thanksgiving is coming up in a week and it will never be the same without you.Dee thinks about you all the time and if only you could know how much she loved you and wanted to be with you, We will all be sad on thanksgiving without you, Andy calls all the time and he misses your friendship so much and is still grieving over you. We all wish you were here and you will be with us all on thanks giving . I pray all the time that you are resting in peace and we will be together again someday. I just can't tell you how much we miss you and wish we could hug you. I love you so much and my heart there is an empty spot that will never go away. Lots of hugs ad kisses are still here for you. WE LOVE YOU ALWAYS. Love, Mom and Dad


I'm helping mom set up her computer. I had to make sure she could access your site and hear the music. It is so important to her to visit you as it is with me also. They have the US Open tennis games on this week. All I can think of is you. You (and I) loved to play tennis and also chess. Our games were cut way too short. I enjoyed playing with you. I did leave you a tennis ball up above to remember our fun playing. We had so much more to do. Just know that I miss you everyday and the tears still flow as I write you a note. I love you very much.....love Sis 9-10-13
Scott, I am still missing you so very much. I will always miss you and love you.So much I wish you were here with us.Our tears are still there for you so much. Hope you can know how much we love you. Love, Mom and Dad 9-14-13

I can't believe it has been 8 months already since you have been gone. We all miss you so much. I miss you more than ever with each day that goes by. Father's Day was a rough one without you. You were so missed and thought about by dad especially but also by all of us. Dee had you in her heart and thoughts that day and wished things could have been different. She loves and misses you so much too. We just took Dee out to celebrate her graduation to Brooks. Her boyfriend went with us. It all went well accept you were missing and it leaves a big hole in all of our hearts. I just keep praying you are with the Lord and at peace. I wish you would have told me but maybe in your own way you did when you said Do Not Mourn I will see you. I am counting on that Scott because I love and miss you so much. You are always there with us in our hearts. Miss and Love you so much. Love, Mom and Dad

Well Scott Your girl has done it. She is now graduated from high school. I know how proud you would be to see her graduate but I got a feeling you did with a smile on your face. I know there is nothing more she would have wanted than to have you there with her.She knows how much you loved her. You can be so proud because she has come through a lot and is a strong person for it. Dee is everything you wanted in a daughter. I think she knows you were there in spirit. Again you are so deeply missed. We love you as always. Love, Mom and Dad

Memorial Day 2013
Thinking of you, Scott on this Memorial Day weekend. We think of you everyday. I often see you downstairs in my building waiting for me. You always had a huge hug for me- something you must have gotten from Dad. I wish we could have had more time to enjoy the tulips and play tennis. I will love you always and not a day goes by that you are forgotten. I miss you very much, brother.
love your sis, Paula

My Son,
You are missed so very much!!!!!
It has been 6 months already since you left us. Our hearts still ache so much and we think of you all the time. I wish you were still here. It is close to Memorial Day the day after tomorrow. I put a single red rose by your stone because a single red rose means love. I will always and forever love you. Mothers Day was hard for me because you were not there but I hope you can see me and know how much you are missed and loved.
When mothers day was here I happened to look into a box of cards I have and right on top was a card you sent me saying Happy Mothers Day with the roses are red, poem on it. And you were small when you gave it to me and you had big letters in silver sprinkles that said love scott. I will cherish that every mothers day because it was like you were sending me a message to wish me a happy mothers day. I will always cherish the things you made for me and the way you always thought about me.
I love and miss you so much son. I pray you are at peace now and happy.
Love, forever, your mom

Son memorial day is here. A time to remember our loved ones. I love you and miss you so much. I have so many memories of us. The day I first held you,your first step, ball and bat pitch and catch. of course we needed model trains. Your first day of school, two wheel bike, 4-H, little league, back yard football games with the neighorhood kids, ping pong which soon I couldn't return your slams and I lost every game. LOL. You worked hard to get your first car running on the road. The first egg you cooked is the only time you cooked plainly, your development as a chef created delicious dishes. days , years and time, although sometimes hard, I remember the good times.
I will always cherish those memories. There is so much I wish we could still do. You said do not mourn but that's impossible because I miss you. I know you needed to be in peace so I understand.
I am so glad we were able to tell each other I love you on that last day. So rest in peace my son. You are forever a part of me and forever in my heart.
Love and hugs
Your Dad

Thinking of you today, brother. I hope you can look down and see how much you are loved and missed, because you are.

Scott,I am always thinking of you. I love you and miss you sooo much. I wish you were here with us. You are so missed by so many people. Tears are still being shed for you. many hugs for you. Love, you, Mom and Dad

The last time I saw my father he gave me a framed quote that said "if I could do life over again, I would have met you sooner, so I could love you longer." I took this for granted. I held an unspoken grudge against him that I wish I could take back. my dad was a loving, caring, gentle, and wonderful man. I always thought he would be there when I was ready to be close with him again. its so surreal to think I don't have that chance anymore. my dad won't see me graduate, get married, or have his grandchildren. I miss him more than anything and wish I could take my selfishness back. please, don't take the time you think you have, and your parents unconditional love for granted. RIP daddy <3

I love you my son! I've been waiting for the right words to tell you how much. I've found there are not enough words to even begin to tell you how much. Everyday I visit you at beloved hearts and another tear is shed. I know you had some hard lonely times and didn't always make the right decisions but you had the kindest, gentlest, heart and spirit. A heart full of compassion that your family always felt. God gave us the most precious gift when he gave us you to love and care for. I'm so thankful I was chosen to be your mother. And there is no one I would rather have as MY SON. I love you and miss you so much. May the Lord take care of you as He always has. You are in my heart forever and ever. I LOVE YOU AND MISS YOU!!!!!!
Love and lots of hugs,
Your Mom

The Broken Winged Bird

I cherish your gift you gave last Christmas You give all that you are capable of The broken wing makes it so intimate We laugh as it would have come no other way It's you; beautiful in the eyes of God and also mine Precious yet broken; aren't we all? You'll be in my heart forever I love you, my brother.


Just thinking of you today and missing you so much. I think about you often and a still shedding tears when I do. I miss your hugs and I pray someday I will get another hug from you. You are so missed. I love you always. Love, Mom

Survived by:

Les and Donna (dad and mom), Paula and Jeff (sister and brother-in-law), Deandre (daughter), Lori and Jessie (nieces)

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